Happy, Holy & Horny
It seems funny and in some cases not christian to use the words Holy and Horny in the same sentence, but that’s the point! For our marriages to be succussful we have to be Happy while maintaining the mandate of being Holy so we can see God, and you cannot ignore the fact that our God made our bodies to respond sexually to our spouses, your horniness and sexual satisfaction matters to God. So marriage and Sex is a God idea. We are made to be Happy, Holy and Horny.
Being Happy Holy and Horny is a way of life, that puts some levels of assurance that our marriages have a chance to succeed.